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His death liberates her at thirty. But the Catholic talons won't let her go. She explores freedom via selling the family home, staying with one or the other of her two life-time friends, is given her first job by the husband of one of them, who is a patriarchal, womanizing politician. Isabel sleeps with him twice, once chosen and once forced.
She meets the local vet, also married and finds a version of true love.
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The jilted womanizer is furious. The vet's wife publicly humiliates Isabel. Thus begins Isabel's descent into decompensation and the prison guards of her upbringing. Her story continues in a compelling and surprising manner. I very much enjoyed the novel. For it's historical portrayal of the 's woman. Yes, we have evolved! And continue to do so, thankfully.
For it's portrayal of love relationships, some crippled and some hopeful. For the well done descent into madness. I shout in my mind, "No! You are worth more! I read this book when it first came out in , and I've carted it with me every time I've moved since then. Finally decided to reread it before purging it from my perpetually overcrowded bookshelves.
I liked it the second time around, though it has aspects of a "period piece. Toward the end of the book, she descends into a mental pit of self-loathing and self-abnegating penitence for her "sin" of briefly putting herself first. This part was hard to read, both infuriating and boring. Naturally, it tapped into my always-just-below-the-surface rage at the Church for its sexism and glorification of self-sacrifice, especially for women.
Susan Sink. I went back to see if I'd love this book as much as I did when I first read it just after graduating from college in What I loved then was the portrait of Catholicism. I also remember feeling like the main character is caught between duty to her father and her desire to break free and have her own life. It's more complicated than that, and the main character is much more rebellious than I remembered.
Her sexual liaisons are self-destructive more than liberating. The main thing is that the book held up to my original memory of the quality of the writing and of drawing a world that I had no idea existed.
I can see why it appealed to me at 23, and it appealed just as much-- for different reasons-- at It's a Catholic classic. Dana Dinowitz. I feel like could sin for the next hundred years because my penance was reading this book. I'd like to have a sit-down with Mary Gordon to discuss her repetitive droning and the crucifixion of Isabel.
Someone really hated catholic school? Isabel Moore has cared for her father for eleven years, now he has died. At the age of thirty Isabel is finally free, her own person and able to do what she wants without having to worry about caring for an invalid. But she is unsure, confused, never having had the kind of normal friendships and relationships her friends Eleanor and Liz have had she is just beginning to experiment and really live.
Along the way she makes mistakes, confusing, passion, sex, love and even things such as religion and morality. She is finding her feet seemingly as a child in the body of a fully fledged adult as well as trying to cope with her deep seated tried and guilt of her father. As penance she even tries to be a carer to someone whom she despises.
Can Isabel ever find happiness outside the confines of her father's narrow life and the walls of the home they shared together?
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A really thought provoking novel of the care system, the people who care for their dependent sand how if affects their lives and future relationships with others. A great read. Darlene Karalash. Liz looked at me, her eyes flicking up and down in quick judgment. Annette Funicello? This comment, from the very last page of the book, sealed the deal for me—I shrieked with laughter and howled so loudly that my husband came running from three rooms away, wanting to know, what was so funny?!?
A completely foreign terrain.
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This book was a real learning experience. Author 6 books followers. What will a self-sacrificing daughter do when her life of caring for her invalid father ends abruptly with his death? In the midst of her loss and pain, she must now make decisions that will determine her future. Will she go ahead and cut her ties to the life she led?
Will she find an independence she lacked all these years? These are the questions before Isabel Moore upon her father's demise. She had loved him, looked up to him, and now she must create a new life without him. Isabel's friends Liz and Eleanor begin to step forward to aid in this metamorphosis. But it's Liz's husband John who offers Isabel an opportunity for a job she seems well-suited for.
A job assessing the caretakers of the infirm, who are doing so with a government stipend. First she must sell her family home, but she does so; she moves into a small apartment in the suburban town where she will work. Another side-effect of Isabel's new life includes the reawakening of her sexual being. Two men become a part of her new life, but in an oddly unexpected way, the men bring about a self-doubt that will ultimately result in Isabel's turning away from her new life and returning to a life of self-sacrifice.
But will she find what she seeks? Or will she ultimately decide that self-sacrifice is not the answer after all. I enjoyed this passage which describes the conflicts Isabel faced in her new life as she was struggling to decide if she should go forward with her lover Hugh, whose wife had unleashed her fury upon Isabel in a very public way: "There had been a gradual darkening in the background of my life with Hugh since he had first suggested leaving his wife.
But after she had publically accused me of theft I began to accept the identity of a thief. I lived as though I had been forced into a hideout. It was February; the light was bad, as I imagined the light to have been bad in wartime London.
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I was afraid to go out of the house. It took a new kind of courage for me to go about the business of my daily life. I drove around the supermarket several times before I went in, trying to calculate the possibility of meeting anyone who had been at the party. In the years that I lived as the daughter of my father I had always been greeted with reverence and delight by shopkeepers, by people carrying groceries.
I was the good daughter. I took care of my father. I had nothing to fear. Faces were open to me, for mine, they believed, was the face of a saint.
Mary gordon sons of katie elder: Witty, brave, intelligent, and passionate, she sets out to conquer the world. She is supported by the loving encouragement of two old school friends, rapidly becomes involved with two men -- and then discovers that before she can grasp the present she must make her final payments to the past.
Now faces would be closed to me, and I myself would learn to close my face As the daughter of my father I was above reproach She taught me so much. In , she was one of 97 theologians and religious persons who signed A Catholic Statement on Pluralism and Abortion , calling for religious pluralism and discussion within the Catholic Church regarding the Church's position on abortion.
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